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Notes from the speed dating floor

Speed dater tips, product updates, hosting advice, and head-to-head product comparisons — new posts as we run events and ship features.

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How to Host a Memorable Speed Dating Event

A practical host playbook covering venue selection, pre-event communications, smooth check-in, running the rounds, collecting picks, and following up fast. The small decisions that separate an event daters remember from one they forget.

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May 29 release: announcements that do more — polls, video, reactions & pinned updates

Host announcements grew up: live polls, short video clips, emoji reactions, automatic link previews, and a pinned update that headlines your event page.

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May 26 release: onboarding polish, cleaner chat, smarter host analytics

A per-field onboarding flow, an analytics rebuild with PDF export for hosts, and a few dozen small touches that make the everyday screens calmer to live in.

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Speed dating software checklist for hosts

Choosing speed dating software? The 12-point checklist to run any tool through before committing — registration, waitlists, check-in, matching, chat, host control, pricing, analytics.

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Dash events vs dating apps: why speed dating isn't Tinder

Dash is event software for in-person speed dating nights, not a dating app. A clear comparison of how matching, chat, discovery, and safety differ from Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble — and which product matches what you're actually trying to do.

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How to make the most of your speed dating experience

Seven things that turn a fun night into actual connections — be yourself, stay present, keep it light, take notes, follow up. A simple guide for daters, first-timers and regulars alike.

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May 19 release: post-event stats, ghost detection, and a friendlier home

Post-event stats for daters, ghost detection and bucket-full alerts for hosts, and a Home tab that now splits Live, Upcoming, and Past events.

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Speed dating by hand vs with Dash: a host's side-by-side

A job-by-job comparison of running a speed dating event manually — paper scorecards, spreadsheets, group texts — versus running it on Dash. Where each one fits and what changes for the host.

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Don'ts of being a speed dater

Five patterns we've watched cost daters real matches at speed dating events — being too picky, aiming too high, ignoring potential matches, misreading signals, skipping reflection — and what to do instead.

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May 12 release: Sign in with Apple + Google, hosts own capacity

Sign in with Apple and Google land in the same icon row, hosts take ownership of event capacity with auto-waitlist promotion, and the host dashboard now updates in real time.

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What if you don't get any matches after speed dating?

No matches doesn't mean the night was a failure or that you're undateable. How to think about it clearly, reflect without spiraling, look for patterns instead of shame, and decide what to do next.

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May 5 release: awards & badges, in-page RSVP, redesigned public event page

Designed badges every dater earns from events, an in-page RSVP sheet that replaces the auth-page redirect, and a rebuilt public event page that finally previews well when shared in group chats.

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How to follow up after speed dating

How to follow up after a speed dating match without overthinking it — what to send, when to send it, real message examples, and how to handle silence.

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How to know who to pick after speed dating

Picking after speed dating is not a lifetime commitment — it is just deciding who you would be open to talking to again. A practical guide to choosing well without overthinking it.

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A safer DateRounds alternative for in-person speed dating

DateRounds is a lightweight, code-based speed dating tool. Dash takes a safer approach with real registration, QR check-in, table assignment, mutual-match-only chat, and event analytics in one place.

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How to stay sharp through every speed dating round

Speed dating moves fast. The people who do best aren't the smoothest in the room — they're the ones who reset between rounds, manage their energy, take quick notes, and give each conversation a fair shot.

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A simpler SpeedMatchApp alternative for in-person speed dating

SpeedMatchApp is a broader matching platform built for many event formats. Dash is focused on in-person speed dating nights with event-based pricing instead of a monthly subscription.

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The best speed dating questions that don't feel like an interview

A working list of speed dating questions that start real conversations — openers, everyday-life prompts, story-starters, preference questions, values without weight, and what to avoid.

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What to wear to speed dating

How to dress for a speed dating night without overthinking it — reading the dress code and the venue, options for guys and women, fit, fragrance, shoes, and what to skip.

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Should you host a speed dating event?

An honest look at what it takes — the qualities of a good host, the real rewards (community, mentorship, side hustle), and the workload nobody tells first-time hosts about.

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What to expect at your first speed dating event

A first-timer's walkthrough of a speed dating night — check-in, the rounds, picks, match reveal, and follow-up — without the mystery or the pressure.

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Best venues for speed dating: 10 spots that almost always work

The right venue can make or break a speed dating night. Ten venue types that tend to work — from coffee shops after hours to hotel conference rooms — plus what every venue needs and which rooms to avoid.

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Speed dating fuel: snacks and water are your secret weapons

The right snacks and (especially) the right amount of water do more for a speed dating event than most hosts realize. Eight practical tips, including the convenience-store run that taught us to always over-order water.

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How to host a memorable speed dating event: quick tips

A six-point skimmable recap of what actually matters when you host a speed dating night — expectations, venue, check-in, flow, picks, follow-up. Read this first, then go deep in the full playbook.

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A ladies' guide to speed dating

Eleven small things that make a speed dating night feel natural — warmth, curiosity, clarity, follow-up. Less performing, more being yourself. The companion to our guy's guide.

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A guy's guide to speed dating

Ten practical tips for guys at a speed dating event. Confidence, listening, dressing, follow-up — what actually works in the room, less 'say the perfect line', more 'show up and pay attention'.

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